I've been stressed and irritated at my bf.Any helpfull answers?

I think you're at a a point where you have to decide whether this is really what you want out of your life and relationship. It sounds to me like your boyfriend is the rather typical lazy pothead who has good intentions but never acts on them. I would definitely say it's time you got rid of him and found someone that you can relate to better or at the very least, someone who pulls their weight.